How to open your heart to receive your soulmate?

Valentine’s Day is approaching, right after the major holidays came-and went.

We are still enveloped in the cozy, heartwarming feeling of the family festivities, giving, cooking, baking cookies and the soft light of our Christmas trees.

But the store shelves already getting ready for the next major event between Christmas , New Years and Easter.

Valentine’s Day.

The holiday of the lovers, marker of new beginnings, cementing and celebrating existing  relationships…

The holiday lots of singles tries to avoid, some envy, but at the same time almost everyone reflects on they hearts desires…

And in case we didn’t already meet the “One” , we ask :

Where is My Soulmate? When do I meet Him/ Her? When is my turn?

These days the web is full of relationship advices, tips how to attract and seduce lovers…

Except we are forgetting, how to prepare Ourselves for the lasting, mutual love we all desire!

We have laundry lists a mile long about what we desire in our mate- and it is okay as long as we don’t micromanage every detail of it, straight down to the most miniscule of details.

Our Souls already know each other from the Other Side: and if (and when) we have achieved our personal growth and evolvement,we are ready to meet and recognize each other in this life.

And yes, everything in our life leads up to that : the good ,the bad, relationship issues, work, study, successes and heartbreaks, as long as we learn from them, we are evolving, and on our way to become our best version ourselves, and that is exactly what  us and our True Mate deserves and needs!  Being hardworking, giving, accepting, loving,setting healthy boundaries, nurturing and being open-hearted…

Sometimes, this takes longer and that’s okay… We all achieve wisdom trough experience and time…

And that is the point when we are ready for each other!

So, in our hearts there is knowing now…

But when we meet flesh and blood people, how do we know how Our Soulmate supposed to look like?

Well, this is the time to step away from the laundry list:

Don’t have detailed expectations of the physical: That is exactly how we miss each other, by having “types” and set characteristics: Our mate might have incarnated into this life looking nothing that we expect! Different ethnicity, height, build, eye color, so fourth.

Instead, listen, feel, think… Give it time…

And the rest our souls Know.

Happy Valentine’s Day!